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	<title>Inflexion Point &#187; how to self-destruct</title>
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		<title>Pulling the Pin on Your Career</title>
		<link>http://inflexionadvisors.com/blog/2008/08/07/pulling-the-pin-on-your-career/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 16:43:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Stelzner</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[destroy your career. career limiting]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most employees walk around every day with a ready supply of hand grenades. Â Some are thrown at coworkers during times of duress. Â Others get rolled into the boss&#8217; office when credit is taken for something you worked weekends to complete. Â But the most explosive, destructive and damaging we save for ourselves. Â This is the overarching [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" style="float: left; border: 1px solid black;" src="http://www.tesora.com.au/images/products/ELGT3112_large.jpg" alt="Hand grenade" width="107" height="107" />Most employees walk around every day with a ready supply of hand grenades. Â Some are thrown at coworkers during times of duress. Â Others get rolled into the boss&#8217; office when credit is taken for something you worked weekends to complete. Â But the most explosive, destructive and damaging we save for ourselves. Â This is the overarching point of Gen Xer Jason Seiden&#8217;s sarcastic book, &#8220;<a title="How to Self-Destruct Seiden" href="http://www.howtoselfdestruct.com/" target="_blank"><strong><span >How to Self-Destruct: Making the Least of What&#8217;s Left of Your Career</span></strong></a>&#8220;.</p>
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<p><em>How to Self-Destruct</em> provides a useful thought-exercise when considering the frustrations of your own career trajectory. Â So many of us are concerned about what we should be doing to succeed in the workplace. Â Seiden takes the opposite approach â€“ what should you do if you were trying to ruin your career? Â  Shockingly, the behaviors that could ruin your career are identical to the â€œplay it safeâ€ strategy most of us use to advance and protect our careers â€“ being defensive, not taking risks and making sure that blame falls on someone else. Â </p>
<p>Recognizing behaviors to avoid can be equally, if not more, useful to career advancement than focusing on behaviors to adopt. Â It will take several pages to get used to the reverse language in the book. Â And sadly, I&#8217;m convinced there are some readers who won&#8217;t get the point and may actually employ Seiden&#8217;s advice literally. Â Flame on brother, flame on&#8230;.</p>
<p>If you want an entertaining snapshot, take a look at Seiden&#8217;s &#8220;explosive trailer&#8221; below. Â Let&#8217;s keep those grenades at the ready and the conversation going.</p>
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